“Your Twin Flame is your future.” ~Jeff & Shaleia
This article is all about the TRUTH of a REAL Twin Flame Relationship.
I watched an amazing class from Twin Flame Ascension School (W7 #56) today on this exact matter, and I would love to share my notes with you. A lot of what you are about to read comes directly from Jeff & Shaleia.
Okay, so here’s the truth:
Being with your Twin Flame is the most natural thing, and it is very easy and normal because you were perfectly created for one another, and are designed for being with each other. Being with them is peaceful, most of all, rather than exciting. It’s also joyful, and happy. Living life with your Twin Flame in Harmonious Union is the perfect date that never ends, while actual date nights with your Twin Flame are just a way to relax, find relief, and enjoy each other within your Harmonious Union.
Jeff and Shaleia are saying that they are primarily investing their time and effort into the foundation of their shared life. It’s a wonderful and sustainable feeling. It feels good to have this part of your journey handled, now you can relax and do what you love to do, together with your favorite person. You can do all the wonderful things together, and this Union is a safe and stable foundation you can pour all your love into. It’s an eternal investment.
It’s peace that you want, and that kills excitement.
Your Twin Flame is the perfect person, but it’s normal. Like the perfect shoe that fits perfectly. It would be weird to wear a shoe that is too big or too small.
The old relationship paradigm, on the contrary, is about sensationalism, and getting really high, especially in the beginning. “Look how good (exciting and nervous rather) you feel with me and how many things I give you. Now commit to me until we have a legal contract that says no cheating is allowed. From here we settle and the magic is already fading out. Our relationship then is without real spark or passion, mostly a compromise and likely codependent.” It is a lie because it is not based on true love.
That is horse shit. Excuse my French. But this is NOT what you truly desire, and this is NOT what you deserve. You DESERVE your true Twin Flame in Harmonious Union, and you can be with them forever because that is the truth of how you were created. The Twin Flame love is real, it is a spiritual attraction, a divine and inherent quality. Non-Twin-Flame love is based on a chemical reaction in your brain that does not last long. It does not matter how old you are when you start this journey, it only matters that you do it.
How does your Twin Flame relationship look like on the outside?
It looks mundane, like the relationship between your grandma and grandpa. Or your aunt and uncle. Values like honesty, authenticity, and real communication are applicable (not just for Twin Flames). It’s normal people asking themselves “Who’s gonna do the dishes?” And yet “it’s to transcendentally different it will blow your brain out, it’s completely satisfying” (Jeff & Shaleia). You have fights with them, but fights are f@$!s. It’s part of the process of moving toward Perfect Union with them. A state where you no longer experience any upset.
It’s advised to clear upsets as they arise using the Mirror Exercise that Jeff and Shaleia are teaching in this book (amongst wonderful and divine Twin Flame content), and not to put them under the rug. You can never lose the desire for your Twin Flame. Not feeling a desire for them is just a block to how they feel. The desire is always there, and it’s both ways. While you don’t try to change your Twin Flame, you can always be your true Self, that’s what is ultimately attractive for them, e.g. if they don’t like a certain Jacket but you just love it, and you love to wear it, you can wear it. It’s the beauty of the Twin Flame Relationship that you’ll never need to compromise. At the core, you always love and desire exactly the same things.
I hope that this helps you to get a better feeling for the Truth of a real Twin Flame relationship.
You can have it, too.
And if you already have it, you can always grow in love. The body of work by Jeff & Shaleia is the guaranteed way to your very own Twin Flame Harmonious Union and perfect life of love shared with them. If you would like to learn more about their body of work, check out this website Twin Flames Universe or schedule a Free Consultation with me. As an Certified Ascension Coach I am happy to support you on your journey. The content you enjoyed reading here is presented in the exquisite and highly recommended Twin Flame Ascension School (watch the first three episodes for free).